In order to prove your love to a Narcissist you had to surrender your identity and all of your power - OR basically your individualism.
You unknowingly handed over your life when you offered them your heart and your trust. This predatory Narcissist KNEW that if they conquered your heart and trust that they had you exactly where they wanted you.
Your primary role and purpose was to please them, enhance and embellish this Narcissist's false image, serve all of their MANY needs and accept their self-serving abuse as your normal or else.
The prison the Narcissist used to keep you captive was built from all of those lies - from the positive endearing "I Love You" as well as the disabling ones that manipulated and managed you down every day to devalue you and take away your worth. This was a desperate and debilitating love..." Read entire article @: After Narcissitic Abuse
