"Narcissists manipulate to CONTROL their target by always reacting in a demeaning, debasing and dehumanizing manner to everything - even manipulating their physical environment to make them believe they have mental issues. Basically they MALIGN all people!
This is called chaos and crazy-making that is meant to confound their victim's normal thoughts AND it is a constant and consistent attack meant to cause emotional and psychological harm to their target or victim.
Unfortunately, the victim expends so much energy trying to understand and fix every chaotic situation that little by little this behavior completely erodes the victim's self-wroth. It becomes an obsessive situation where the victim is CONSTANTLY trying to fix and avoid the conflict, keeping peace, or walking on eggshells and it becomes their NEW NORMAL.
There is NEVER an opportunity for a healthy self in this relationship and the victim becomes a casualty of the constant emotional and psychological terrorism. The victim becomes a shell of a person because a Narcissist erases their personality with the lies, manipulation, chaos and CRAZY-MAKING!..."
Read entire article @: After Narcissitic Abuse