This is the true nature of the Narcissist or disconnected from all people in this world so their connection with us is ONLY born out of their needs and NEVER ours.
What else could an empty shell of a person or a void offer to anyone else if they have no emotions, empathy or reality.
Your part in this relationship will NEVER be enough because there is never enough that any one person could do to satisfy a Narcissist. They objectify ALL people or basically USE them.
What it boils down to is that they are by far delusional and dysfunctional as well as in total denial of just how disordered they are because they have dissociated and totally disconnected from their own reality. There are NO internal mechanics that allow them to bond with people in a normal manner.
As long as the Narcissist has new lies and new supply they shore up those delusions once more and just move on without a single care to the vast amount of damage and destruction they cause in life..." Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse
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"They will fiercely protect themselves
with diversions like
drama, rage, threats, fear and deflection tactics
with diversions like
drama, rage, threats, fear and deflection tactics
and ALWAYS blaming everyone else
for their abusive behavior and actions."
