Their personal interactions will give everyone the impression that they put themselves out for you, help you and even support you BUT every one of their words and actions are meant to serve a purpose or a bigger part of THEIR personal agenda to get at something they want and need.
This defines the 'Love Bombing' or 'Charm Trap' that they use and reuse to keep reeling you back into their game and self-serving world.
With a Narcissist all of these gestures are usually undertaken on a very shallow level. In other words things are done solely for their COMPLETE benefit to extract supply from all people by creating the 'image or façade of the day' or even the hour or minute! Whatever is needed to serve them and their agenda.
If you are emotionally invested it is unlikely that you will notice the reality of their seduction until it is to late. They are not always this supportive or nice nor does it last very long and this is where the danger lies and what leads to their abusive ways. They always take a person from "Charm to Harm!..." Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse
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A Narcissist knows how to
confound and confuse
their victims as well as
condition and manipulate them
through anger, raging, managing them down,
punishing and silencing them
if they do not play exactly
the way they are demanded to play.
