You are only in their life to make them look and feel good OR because you are useful to the Narcissist just like an object that satisfies a specialized need.
There is no internalization with a Narcissist like emotional bonds, caring, liking, loving, or empathy. Their world is totally externalized and everyone without exception is objectified like a shiny new car that the Narcissist uses, drives and wears to make them look and feel however special they need to be at any particular moment.
The Narcissist's complete image is a fake aspect of their chameleon like nature AND it constantly changes just like that chameleon changes its colors to blend into their environment..."
Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse
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"Narcissists have a lot of internal shame driving them.
If their twisted lifestyle or their secrets and lies are revealed
accidentally or purposefully it would cause damage to the Narcissist.
Essentially it would destroy their world by shutting them AND
their ability to secure supply down completely."
