You have to stop wasting any of your thoughts or expending any energy or time on them because you are NOT dealing with a fully functioning human being that possesses empathy or real emotions.
Love and bonding requires openness, honesty, vulnerability, facing ones fears, feeling emotions and being open to change in favor of making a REAL commitment grow.
In the Narcissist's mind these are all unfamiliar, negative and poisonous to them because they are not even remotely wired with any of these mechanisms to reciprocate in a real manner - BUT - they can imitate these qualities seamlessly and incorporate them into a façade to fool their target and soon to be victim.
Narcissists are with people as RECIPENTS ONLY and YOU are reduced to an OBJECT that supplies them with what they want, need and can't get on their own - SUPPLY!
Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse
