"Most of the world realistically lacks the truth and knowledge to understand that what drives the Narcissist's disorder and abuse as being the lack of mechanisms to experience real emotions, empathy, or the ability to bond with people in a healthy manner.
With that in mind it was purely manipulation that the disordered Narcissist used to trick you into trusting them and believing they are real. It is ONLY a huge con job to support their agenda to use and abuse you as their next source of supply. You have something that they want and they are going to get it no matter what it takes to get you to trust them until they achieve their goal or agenda.
The Narcissist gives the appearance of being motivated by empathy and love AND having the same direction to pursue a relationship as you do. They talk the talk, walk the walk and speak all of the words (lies) of love and fidelity which resonates and confirms that you are both on the same page.
Meanwhile the Narcissist has a complete aversion to real intimacy and they are not connecting to you on any earthy emotional level. Unfortunately, you are completely unaware of this and the real distance and dysfunction that governs their personality disorder.
They are after something very different than love, bonding or any type of relationship for that matter. Instead they are seeking out candidates to serve their needs or objectifying people. We are only objects to a Narcissist and we all have an expiration date after we have served our particular purpose in their lives..."
Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse
