"So much Confusion and Anxiety!
A Narcissist draws from the vast wealth of knowledge they have gained from knowing and observing you AND they consistently use it to maneuver you in and out of that mass confusion you constantly feel, as well as isolate you with the chaotic messages they plant in your heart and mind. THIS is basically the main component in emotional and psychological abuse or managing down and controlling your thoughts.
You are left with these distorted messages trying to defend or address them in an attempt to find resolution where there will NEVER be any as it concerns the situation of YOU. After a while these crazy and chaotic arguments will have you frozen in the confusion so much so that you have lost all perspective of the relationship as well as your value in the relationship AND in time your self-worth!
You are always responding and reacting to the Narcissist's crazy making and NEVER participating in a reciprocal or real relationship - you were reacting to emotional and psychological abuse from a Malignant Narcissist!"
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