Understand Narcissist - VILLE To Find Your Way OUT!

"The Narcissist's modus operandi or mode of operation is born out of manipulative words and actions, pathological lying, triangulation, slander, back-stabbing and a cunning and shrewd personality to match.


To really understand a Narcissist you have to KNOW that their behavior and intentions are as far removed from caring, loving, being a friend, bonding, or having any semblance of empathy or reality and more apt to be described as poisonous.


Their goal is to trample or manage down any person that gets involved in their life. Once you enter Narcissist - VILLE you sign away your freedom and individuality and become an indentured servant to the Narcissist, as well as take your verbal and emotional beatings regularly.


Your human rights are striped from you and you are under the rule of a sadistic dictator with no way to escape their rule unscathed or damaged. The Narcissist intends to control people through negativity, harm and fear. It is an epic relationship with them because they start you out on this journey believing you are loved and cared for - but that was only to open up the door to a prison of emotional and psychological abuse!"


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

Human Trafficking Survivors Story To Freedom

"I am the exception to the rule. I am one of a handful of victims that has survived to lead a different life. Now, I am determined to be part of the solution: to raise awareness and to agitate for changes in policy and the law. I hope you will lend me your encouragement."


Read entire article @: The Guarian

The Narcissists Game: Divide and Conquer

"The Narcissist's world resolves around a basic and deceptive agenda - to divide, conquer and isolate! They pit people against each other to control the environment and keep people diverted from the real truth of how deceptive and destructive the Narcissist is by creating diversions that put the blame on everyone else.


They will even manufacture situations to make you jealous or weary of other people and question their sincerity. They will also make you believe that the people closest to you are talking negatively behind your back by presenting you with allegations from those people. The real agenda is not the Narcissist being concerned - BUT to put wedges in between you and the people you care about. The reverse is true also - the Narcissist will go to the people closet to YOU and make them believe you have said negative things about them!


The narcissist uses the familiarity from knowing you and any and all private information you shared and trusted with them as ammunition to now use AGAINST you. By being somewhat 'in the know' the Narcissist's stories seem real and personal to the listener.


The Narcissist isolates their victim from the people closet to them, forcing the victim to rely and become dependent on the concerned and caring Narcissist that will only manipulate and control he victim more and more. Pure deception to divert, divide, conquer, isolate and CONTROL!"


Read the entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

Quote Of The Day

"Toxic people have an incredible ability to

triangulate third parties into abusing a victim.

This is done on purpose so the toxic person's

hands 'stay clean' from the abuse."

~~~ Shannon Thomas

Narcissists Everything They Told You And Tell You Is A LIE!

"To completely understand a Narcissist you have to conceptualize that everything about them is a LIE. To take it further - not ALMOST everything about them is a lie but EVERYTHING from I love you, I hate you, my family hates you, your friends hate you, the world hates you, you are crazy or mentally ill, ect., ect.


Don't forget all the other day to day lies, the lies about stupid stuff, the lies about accountability, the lies about other lies, and every other lie about anything and everything. The Narcissist downloads these lees and negative messages into your head and your heart to manage you down, gain power over you, and to control you.


So when you refer back to ANY of these messages the Narcissist put in your head, try to relate to them, try to resolve any of the problems or issues you have or had with them, try fix the relationship, make sense or try to understand the Narcissist - you are only listening and replaying the same old lies that manipulated into the place where you are today that trapped you into this abusive dance with them.


Those messages and lies were personally designed to blame, shame, and debilitate you - AND THEY HAVE! Discard the Narcissist and discard every word they have ever spoken to you because EVERYTHING WAS A LIE!"


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

The 'Most Dangerous' Narcissist Is Out To Destroy The World

"Narcissists are very accomplished liars and can be high functioning individuals - but their complete persona and their entire world is totally based on pathological deception and lies. Their positive attributes and alleged actions are all made up in order to achieve an above normal place in our world, as well as to get to their fix of Narcissistic supply, adulation, praise and the accolades they crave so much.


That magnanimous but fake persona gives them an acceptable and workable façade and place among good and normal people. They NEED that place in our world to survive among us BUT that dysfunctional creature still lives inside of them and very near to the surface of their façade - just test them once and you will see the fury of the hidden creature. It is poisonous, destructive and disabling to ALL people. A Narcissist will take you out if you ever attempt to make them accountable in any way because they fear exposure.


They will also just move on to the next family, place, career, organization, town, or whatever it takes to constantly achieve that supply. They will also exhaust someone else's worth in the process and move on to another again and again....."


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

Honor Killing: The Wickedness Of Primitive Beliefs That Have No Value

What message is this teaching these young girls, who were being brainwashed, by the same religion their teacher was teaching them, 'Islam', and do you see what happened to her!

"Two young girls stand inches from charred bricks and ash, staring at the spot where a "kind and gentle" teenager who taught them the Koran was savagely burned by her mother for marrying the man of her choice.


Maham and Muskan were pictured Wednesday with their eyes riveted to the place where, just hours before, 16-year-old Zeenat Bibi was doused in kerosene and set alight.

That night, Maham's mother told AFP, she had to reassure her tearful and confused daughter that she loved her....."

Read entire article @: Yahoo News

The Bambozzling Narcissist

"So much Confusion and Anxiety!

A Narcissist draws from the vast wealth of knowledge they have gained from knowing and observing you AND they consistently use it to maneuver you in and out of that mass confusion you constantly feel, as well as isolate you with the chaotic messages they plant in your heart and mind. THIS is basically the main component in emotional and psychological abuse or managing down and controlling your thoughts.

You are left with these distorted messages trying to defend or address them in an attempt to find resolution where there will NEVER be any as it concerns the situation of YOU. After a while these crazy and chaotic arguments will have you frozen in the confusion so much so that you have lost all perspective of the relationship as well as your value in the relationship AND in time your self-worth!

You are always responding and reacting to the Narcissist's crazy making and NEVER participating in a reciprocal or real relationship - you were reacting to emotional and psychological abuse from a Malignant Narcissist!"

Read entire article @: After Narcissists Abuse

Convicted: Henious Pedophile Awarded 22 Life Sentences

"Richard Huckle, who abused up to 200 children, has been handed 22 life sentences with a minimum term of 25 years.


The freelance photographer, from Ashford in Kent, admitted an unprecedented number of offences against children aged between six months and 12 years from 2006 to 2014. A stream of pictures and videos of his rapes and assaults on children were shared with pedophiles worldwide on the dark web...."


Read entire article @: Sky News

"Strike Out" Modern Day Slavery

Human trafficking can happen anywhere, but human traffickers main territories for scouring potential victims are sporting stadiums, concert venues, motels, hotels, airports, beaches.... Human trafficking can happen to anyone.


As a survivor of human trafficking, I am passionate about this program of Max and Erica May-Scherzer. Someday if I live to tell it, people will hear an insane story of what Muslims, Iranians, and foreigners are doing here in America, to Americans. It must be addressed and the offenders punished! They put you on the streets, stalk you on the streets, prey on you on the streets, terrorize you on the streets, make you look crazy and call the cops on you! Human trafficking has many variations and usually leads to sex trafficking.


" Washington Nationals pitcher Max Scherzer and Polaris Ambassador Erica May-Scherzer announced two new programs today for their fans during the 2016 MLB season to support Polaris, a leader in the global fight to eradicate modern slavery and restore freedom to survivors.


Fans can now have their favorite Max Scherzer items autographed by Max through their Autographs & Athletes program after making a donation to Polaris. The Scherzers are also encouraging fans to participate in their Strike Out Modern Slavery fundraiser by pledging to donate for every strikeout Max throws this season. Erica and Max will be matching their fans’ donations up to $25,000 for each fundraiser.

Fans can learn more by visiting: Polaris Project

Don't Let a Narcissist Rob You Of Your Confidence and Self Worth

"With emotional and psychological abuse the victim can't really see that it is abuse because they were conditioned by their abuser to believe that there was always something wrong with OR about THEM.


When a person is physically abused with a blackened eye for example - that singular action undeniably defines it as abuse to the victim personally as well as anyone else that sees the physical damage.


With emotional and psychological abuse there is no one and outward bruise or sign of abuse. Sometimes the victim is not even aware of the words and actions from their abuser that are harming and even destroying them like the children raised with a Narcissistic parent.


The real bruises are on the inside as well as many scars that have built up over time. It makes it extremely difficult for a victim to express the damage that lives in their heart, soul and mind especially when they have been blamed, made to feel worthless, like they don't fit in, and SILENCED without a voice.


Sometimes the victim is frozen in this abuse for their entire life. The real damage here is that somehow it was connected to a love they believed in."


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

19 Year Old Pakistani Woman, Tortured, Set On Fire, All For Refusing A Marriage Proposal

No girl or woman, should ever be forced into marriage! Marriage is a personal choice, not a duty or an obligation. Marriage should only be completed by two individuals that have consented with each other and decided to go through the rituals that consist in a marriage.


"Pakistani police announced Friday that all five suspects in the brutal killing of a 19-year-old schoolteacher who was tortured, doused with gasoline and set on fire earlier this week for refusing to marry a man twice her age are now in custody.

Before she died, Maria Bibi had given a statement to police, saying five attackers had stormed her house in the town of Upper Dewal on Monday, dragged her to an open area and kicked her as though she were a “football.”

She was brought to an Islamabad hospital in critical condition and later died. The attackers fled after the assault. Bibi's family has maintained that she was killed for rejecting a marriage proposal from a man who owned a school and wanted her to marry his son....."


Read entire article @: LA Times

The Malignant Narcissist Abuses You With Words

"There are no adequate words to describe what emotional and psychological abuse does to a sane and loving person with real empathy. To understand the time that is lost, the extreme betrayal, the lost dreams and goals, and the feeling of worthlessness at the hands of an abusive Narcissist is impossible unless you have experienced this hideous abuse.


It is like being punished, isolated and locked up in a prison and for NO viable reason other than being a normal, real and loving person. It is incomprehensible and takes so much self-reflection, strength, courage, love, validation and a new journey or better yet a rebirthing process that the victim has to embark on.


Sometimes a victim doesn't recover because many do not even understand that they have been abused because there are no physical bruises, but there are invisible bruises to the mind, heart and soul. They have been convinced that THEY are to blame and even have issues concerning their mental health.


They were led on this road by a Malignant Narcissist and the abuse has completely disabled them and they live in this shame and blame forever. THIS is the plight of many children that were raised/abused by Narcissistic parents as well as spouses, family members, friends and basically anybody that has any sort of close relationship with a Narcissist.


To describe this abuse with any clarity it would have to be called psychological rape over an extended and lengthy period of time that traumatizes a victim into silence, isolation, as well as mentally disables them until intervention or help frees them and enables them to move forward."


Read entire article @: Afther Narcissistic Abuse

New Places Sex Trafficking Is Happenng, Michigan

"The FBI in Michigan worked 220 sex trafficking, or forced prostitution, cases last year. Michigan cases reported to the National Human Trafficking Resource Center — there were 62 through the first three months of 2016 — have increased each year since 2012. Law enforcement officials said it's likely most prostitutes are forced.




‘These women are being forced by someone’
Sometime in the last few weeks, the FBI in Detroit came across two “very active prostitutes.” They were “recovered,” not arrested, said Maureen Reddy, assistant special agent in charge of the FBI’s operation in Michigan. They were 13 and 15 years old....."


Read entire article @: Detroit Free Press

Narcissists LOVE An Audience

"Narcissists LOVE an audience to create, seed and cultivate their toxic drama for the very basic reason to control the environment around them. They also create drama as a tool to get supply or draw all of the attention to themselves.


It is what they do with this drama that is so destructive because it is used to divide and conquer people and keep them confused through control and isolation. You can bet the Narcissist is always the 'go to person' or at the center of all the controversy but comes out smelling like a rose.


Be assured that someone is being destroyed in the process when a Narcissist is sharing their thoughts or concerns about someone else AND that person is NEVER within reach to defend themselves!"


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

FGM: Samira Mohamed Ali Cast As Co-Lead In Film Crushed Wings

"Actress Samira Mohamed Ali isn’t short of glamour – but the model and TV presenting star from Neath is proving her credentials as a serious actress by taking on some heavyweight subjects.
Following winning the Best Actress award for her role in By Any Name (2016) at this year’s North Wales International Film Festival, Samira has been cast to play co-lead in the powerful feature film Crushed Wings, which deals with the issue of female genital mutilation (FGM)...."


Read entire article @: Wales Online    Twitter Account: Honor Diaries