What Is Really Behind The Mask Of A Narcissist

"A Narcissist idealizes his/her victim for a while just like 'courting a person' in the old days. This courting period is the most important and manipulative aspect of the 'big con' that the Narcissist is creating personally for us because it is an investment for THEM! The Narcissist brings out the best in their target/victim and mirrors their good qualities right back to them and creating that feeling of having so much in common. THIS is the very reason we think our Narcissist is so amazing because he/she is mirroring our personal belief system, our code of ethics, our every like and dislike, our morality, our EVERYTHING and they even become a part of our family and circle of friends. What is there NOT to like about this person? These character traits are non-existent in the Narcissist and an insidious betrayal to gain our trust through pretending to be so real as well as faking and using one of the most beautiful emotions to manipulate us further - LOVE! This is no dream come true but instead the start of the darkest nightmare you will ever experience. Along with that this is not a soulmate BUT a soulless-mate!"


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