You Are Crazy, The Narcissist Says, - "But I Love You"

"A Narcissist means to get inside of your head, heart and life to secure what they need so desperately and that is supply. They will disable your reality at so many levels concerning your mental well-being to accomplish this and it is intentional!


This is NOT something that the victim has conscious control over because it is purely lies, deception, manipulation and control. This manipulative aspect is called 'gaslighting' and it seriously confounds and distorts the victim's reality and it ALL starts out with the biggest distortion or the charm and love bombing the Narcissist uses to create a strong emotional bond and trust with their potential victim.


This is what creates that familiar or what appears to be a 'normal' relationship FIRST that the victim falls into unknowingly. It is a TRAP and purely deception on the Narcissist's part to control their victim by continually keeping them in a vicious circle of belief and then doubt.


THAT is what destroys and disables the victim as well as becomes their new reality where they start to internalize the many negative messages, blame, shame, punishment, betrayal, and abusive actions. It basically erases the victim's personality, destroys their self-worth, belief system and completely traumatizes their life!"


Read entire article @: ANA -After Narc Abuse

1000's Of Truck Drivers Combating Human Trafficking, At Truck Stops

"While the world is a dark place for the approximately 4.5 million people currently trapped in the human trafficking industry in forced sexual exploitation, this is also a story of redemption and heroes."


This is how we tackle, solve problems and catch predatory, stalking, criminals. When people team up together, using their minds and implementing a plan of action. I cringe and my rage grows for a minute when reading these kind of horrendous stories, but then I come back to reality, knowing it is my actions that can be of benefit. But the emotion of rage is important and should not be underestimated. Otherwise you might evade and deny there are real ugly problems and predators in the world.   Read entire article @: Up Worthy


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What Is Really Behind The Mask Of A Narcissist

"A Narcissist idealizes his/her victim for a while just like 'courting a person' in the old days. This courting period is the most important and manipulative aspect of the 'big con' that the Narcissist is creating personally for us because it is an investment for THEM! The Narcissist brings out the best in their target/victim and mirrors their good qualities right back to them and creating that feeling of having so much in common. THIS is the very reason we think our Narcissist is so amazing because he/she is mirroring our personal belief system, our code of ethics, our every like and dislike, our morality, our EVERYTHING and they even become a part of our family and circle of friends. What is there NOT to like about this person? These character traits are non-existent in the Narcissist and an insidious betrayal to gain our trust through pretending to be so real as well as faking and using one of the most beautiful emotions to manipulate us further - LOVE! This is no dream come true but instead the start of the darkest nightmare you will ever experience. Along with that this is not a soulmate BUT a soulless-mate!"


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse

The Narcissist's Image Is False

"The Narcissist's image is completely FALSE and created out of thin air and only as a working component to hide their pathological and dysfunctional life. There is no substance to it whatsoever. It is not about liking us, caring for us, bonding with us and NEVER about loving us. The Narcissist creates these special images for each and every one of us AND they are personally designed to mimic our life and appear as if we have so much in common. It is only a reflection of OUR good life that is given back to us and THAT is the bait that they use to trap us in as a new source of supply. They aren't looking at us with any emotional context but instead as a potential candidate to serve their many needs or objectified. We do not exist as a person to them but instead as a means to an end to exploit our life and love away from us. If you cease giving them what they want and need they will simply move on to another source without hesitation. Unfortunately they are dangerous in their pursuit of supply because the Narcissist MUST disable their source psychologically and emotionally to tap into all the supply they need. Believing in them is like reaching for the stars because you will NEVER be able to reach that far without falling first!"


- Greg Zaffuto - Author - From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist @ ANA - After Narc Abuse

Narcissists Can Be Silent Destroyers

"Narcissists abuse their position of power and privilege simply because they can which is morally indefensible - But they will endlessly talk about being moral, a good person, always doing the right thing, always taking responsibility but they NEVER genuinely face up to and become accountable for any of their many destructive actions. A Narcissist is the victimizer/abuser that disguises themselves by playing the role of a victim to absolve themselves of any blame and shame for what they REALLY are. They perpetrate abuse and violence on others even destroying a person's integrity and life while hiding behind the façade of being the victim themselves. This inability to consciously feel their 'negative' feelings is at the root or core of the dynamic in which they totally dissociate from their own darkness through blaming and projecting darkness onto others. Narcissists have a potential enemy around every corner and are always having to look over their shoulder. THIS is why they separate their past from their present and always moving on or basically running to newer supply to feed their addiction and avoid that past coming back to haunt and expose them."


Found @ 27 Million Voices Today and understand Narcissists better @ ANA - After Narc Abuse

Justice: Sex Trafficking Pedatory Pimp Gets 96 Years In Prison

When you hear stories of justice like this, it brings the emotion of elation. Finally the predator was caught and charged for stealing the rights of children, in this case. Sex trafficking is a vicious crime and when children are involved it makes my blood curl. Innocent young lives used by adults for the purpose of money.


"Before the guilty verdicts, before the hefty prison sentence, before what has been declared a landmark victory for San Francisco’s antitrafficking efforts, there was just a girl in a revealing dress, sitting in an interview room at the police station.

When San Francisco police Sgt. Tony Flores met her that afternoon in July 2014, she was still in the wig and provocative clothes she’d been forced to wear when she had sex with men for money.

The girl was one of two teenage victims of Jamar Geeter, who was sentenced Thursday to 97 years to life in state prison for 16 counts of sex trafficking, pimping, pandering and rape...."


Read entire article @: San Francisco Cronicle

Predators and Predatory Scammers

"Desperate People, Do Desperate Things." - Tony Ingram

When you are dealing with the most dangerous types of predators, you need to be prepared for anything and everything. Especially if the predators you are dealing with, are extremely wealthy. They have the money to play dead, change their appearance, change their names, create a new identity, create a new life, move to other places, many times over and over again. When wealthy predators are being challenged, or any predator for that matter and they become desperate, death threats and violence could ensue. But threats don't/won't stop those seeking justice who are not afraid to die, like myself.

After reading these horrific stories about two young ladies who have been missing and knowing a little bit about one of the young ladies stories, rage came up within me. Not only have these young ladies been missing, kidnapped and who what has happened to them by their initial predator(s), but a second group of predators has descended upon their families. Predatory Scammers!

Read these tragic stories of Kelsie Schelling and Megan Lancaster @: ABC News