Friday, December 2, 2016

Narcissist: You Were Chosen As Their Next Victim


"Temporarily we represent the object of a Narcissist's DESIRES - or the answer to THEIR needs, the key to THEIR happiness - but with a hitch - WE ALL HAVE AN EXPIRATION DATE with them. Simply put we serve a particular need for a period of time or until the Narcissist is done with us and found a new replacement.


"We are only OBJECTS satisfying their external needs because Narcissists CANNOT bond with people or love like they pretend to do so well.


Add to this that they are addicts and external supply is their drug of choice because they have no mechanics that allows internalization like emotions, love, or bonding SO they will always be searching for another eternal fix or object.


Once your identity, hopes and expectations are evident to a Narcissist they are done and the excitement and exhilaration is gone for them and they will move onto other sources of pleasure and diversion.


They are not going to give anyone anything in return because you were chosen as their next victim - this is not a give and take relationship. Anyone that has any sort of relationship with a Narcissist is ONLY temporary supply!..."


Read entire article @: After Narcissistic Abuse